Buy-in dominates today’s leadership behavior. Leaders are convinced that if only the masses would buy-in all would be well. We see it in business and politics, especially around election time. I participated in a three-year quest for buy-in in a previous job. The vision was a thriving company composed of employees who bought into the corporate leadership strategy and worked together to achieve lofty goals. During this buy-in quest, we had numerous off-sites, filled with strategy development, change initiatives, and leadership behavior analysis. Leaders executed communication plans to reach every employee to get them to believe in the vision of the thriving company. Yet during this time, the company cut benefits, darkened offices, and significantly reduced staff. Morale was low and many employees were not buying into the new vision. The corporate communication intensified and based on the cost savings from the activities mentioned above, the company financial wellbeing began to improve. Corporate leadership heralded this as a new beginning and proof that buy-in worked. I understand from reading many leadership books that getting employees to believe in a common vision is the key to creating the potential for a high performance company. Yet in this instance, the buy-in seems to be one way. Company leadership expected employees to buy-into the corporate vision but the company leadership does not buy-into the employees, it actually cut benefits and staff. Our political leaders and candidates are promoting a buy-into their vision of government strategy as well but all the while, they continue fail to buy-into the people. How do we convince leaders to buy-into the people they lead?
A very well written article on how anger can escalate. Anger can be positive but also destructive. The decision on how to respond to anger or which way to use it, happens with little thought. Just like I did this morning after being cut off by a driver who was paying more attention to his cell phone than the road. I instantly raced up to him after cussing and tailgated. I realized what I was doing after getting on his bumper and seeing his kids in the back seat. How can we create the distance to pull the decision out of our subconscious and arrest the emotional cycle to gain control over the situation? Better yet how can we see the indicators and avoid the engagement altogether?
“We’re all going to be like three little Fonzies here….Cool.”
– Samuel L. Jackson, Pulp Fiction
In 1994, a young Quentin Tarantino would make his mark in the motion picture industry with an independent film titled Pulp Fiction. With the backing of Miramax Films, Tarantino had an extravagant (for an independent film) $8 million dollar budget, and he made good use of every cent. The ultra violence of the film was neutralized by sophisticated directing, a splash of humor, oscar worthy performances, and the intriguing, intersecting storylines. To date, Pulp Fiction is one of the highest growing indie films of all times, with a worldwide gross of more than $220 million dollars. There were many memorable scenes and characters, some shocking others prolific, but most only make sense within context of the movie. But one line, just “be cool” delivered with veracity by Jules Winnfield (Samuel L. Jackson) transcends this cinematic wonder to become a…
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Great dialogue. We as humans, have to make judgements to survive and prosper. It is the way in which we go about judging or assessing that creates a positive or negative outcome.
I wrote a post a couple of weeks back (The Cost Of Being Judgmental) that was in essence about how being “judgmental” interferes with our ability to learn and discover. In that post, a blogging colleague that I respect a lot (Diana Schwenk at talktodiana) made a very astute comment that really got me thinking about “good judgment” and “bad judgment”.
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I started my leadership journey in summer school and to be honest I hated it. I could not believe that my mom sent me to summer school, not just any summer school, but a residential program where I had to take classes and work. As bleak as it seemed at the time, I was able to overcome my anger and disappointment of missing out hanging with my friends all summer and began to enjoy the program. However, it was not until after college that I realized that my foundational leadership skills came from spending four years in a summer school program.
The US Department of Education has a program for low-income families to help prepare their kids for college called Upward Bound. I stayed on a college campus for the summer living in the dorms, eating in the dining halls, attending classes in math, science, composition, literature and a foreign language. I had a job off campus twice a week and we all pitched in to clean and maintain the dorm area. We had workshops in study skills, team building, critical thinking, and exam prep.
The counselors provided a safe environment for us to test out limits, change the way we thought about life and our future, and develop positive behaviors. My classmates were great. We became a community helping each other face and address some very difficult problems. We all took turns leading and following. At the end of my last year, my counselors selected me to attend a national leadership conference in Boston. It was incredible. I also received a leadership scholarship for college.
Given all of this experience, I still did not understand its impact. I finally realized how Upward Bound prepared me for leadership roles while attending Army Officer Basic Course after college. Upward Bound gave me my leadership beginnings. The program helped me develop my empathy, teambuilding and conflict management skills, and my desire to become a servant leader. I encourage all parents of teenage kids to look at this program. Your kids will hate it, but the return on investment compounds for a lifetime.
Here is the link: http://www2.ed.gov/programs/trioupbound/index.html
This is a call to engage in life-long learning. Sometimes we just need someone else to say it to make it real. Well done.
This is a great article, especially the part about opportunity. All we are entitled to is an opportunity; opportunities to grow, learn, and achieve. Make the most of your opportunities and leave the status quo behind.
“The riskiest thing we can do is just maintain the status quo.” —Bob Iger
By Elizabeth Stincelli, DM
The Status Quo
As Marshall Goldsmith said, “What got you here won’t get you there.” What is sufficient for success today will not be sufficient tomorrow. You must learn to be agile. Evaluate where you are today and where you want to go. Will continuing on your current route get you there? If you are seeking long-term success you must constantly challenge the status quo.
What is your mission?
Your purpose should provide a clear mission. Who needs you? What do they need and why? What must you do to meet those needs? When you have a reasoned mission, you have a clear picture of where you are going and how you will behave on your journey. This clarity allows you to remain calm during times of adversity. It helps you…
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Change – it is much easier to talk about than to go through. You recognize the need for it. You create a plan. Then, just when you are ready to execute, it happens. Annoying emotions creep in and fill you with doubt, anxiety, and fear. You begin the doom-loop, ruminating about the risks of failure and second-guessing everything. You let your emotions loose and now how can you get them back under control? This is where I was this week; stuck again in the struggle. Out of a job for two months, and while I applied to over 25 jobs, I received no hits. My skills and experience are not in demand in this area. I moved here for family reasons and lost my job eight months later. I thought I would, as I had previously, change jobs with ease. My perceptions and reality were out of alignment. Facing this realization, I panicked. After more than 20 years of continuous employment and upward mobility, I am now seen not as an asset to a company but too expensive to hire. I reduce my salary expectations and still no luck. It appears companies see me as a flight risk, and will not even interview me because they believe that if a job with a higher salary comes along, I would bolt. Panic leads to paralysis. Leading others through change, I can harness my emotions and guide people through even when they are stuck. Leading me through change is much harder. Pride was cementing me in place. To break loose I had to accept that I needed help. By setting aside my pride, I was able to reduce my anxiety. Now with the help of those I trust I can reassess where I am and create a new professional identity. I rejoice the fact that I can move again, but why does reinventing my professional identity seem much harder now that it did 20 years ago?